ASD: Autism Spectrum Disorder

 
I have to take Meira to a Nureologist. I brang up some concerns I had (thinking they were food related because that was what I was told when she was 6 months), and her Dr said she needs to be tested.

Doing my research I know that 18 months is when they get "tested" or it is around here anyway. I am concerned and worried but what parent doesn't obsess over their child. I am hurting for my baby, and I wish that I could fix this. I know nothing about what she may be going through and that bothers me.

Here are the Dr's  (and more importantly mine) concerns.

*When ever she is tired, hungry, over whelmed etc, she will go ridged and rock. The only way to get her to stop is hugging her tight or removing her from the situation all together. She does this with objects as well. She will get focused on making the craying color like her big brother is. If she can't do it she will do the rocking routine while trying to do so (she's frustrated). She also likes tight small places like boxes. She could sit in them for hours.

*She started using words very early. By 6 months she could say Dada, car, block, ball, wyatt (her brother's name) and other one sylable words. Now she can say 7. Wyatt, Daddy, Mama (just said it two weeks ago for the first time) and side (outside), eyes (she is obseed with "The eye book"), and uh-oh. She used to beable to say things like Hi dada, i did it!, and other spontaneous two word sentences.

*Only ever rolled over once as a baby. Has done it a couple times since turing 13 months but that is it.

*Never crawled. She either scooted or did this weird one legged crawl, then went to walking at about 13 months. It was honestly like she didn't want the floor touching her knees.

*She can't tell when she is full. (I assume. Either that or she focuses on food or can't taste it.)

*She will point and grunt at what she wants, wont use word or sign language at all, but when she feels like it she will babble.

*There are other behavioral and social issues as well. Like angery out bursts and becoming catotonic in public places or around unfamiliar people. It took her a full 13 months to let my Aunt Terrie hold her. We live with her and see her everyday. Even family we see often she wont go to.

I know very little to nothing about ASD so I can't really know if these are red flags or if my dr is just trying to rule everything out to ease my concerns. It's out of my hands and in Heavenly Father's, but I can't help feeling so sad and hurt for her. I feel like it's somehow my fault. I rationally know it's not, but it feels that way.

Happy 4th!!!

Today was a great day. I spent most of it doing laundry and packing, but did get to enjoy my babies and a burger made by hubby! We enjoyed an afternoon swim, had some ice cream (Stinkerbelle and I had lemon ice), and watched a little tv with the kiddos! Perfect day!
Keeping this one short, Happy 4th!!! From our family to yours! God Bless!

Another Soybean update!

Today marks our 15th week of pregnancy. While technically is My and Soybean's 15th week it is definitely Jeremy's as well. Since the beginning of "our pregnancy" Jeremy has craved sweets! Mainly ice cream. He has not gained any weight in fact we have both lost.
As of this morning I am down 23lbs from the beginning of this pregnancy. Soybean is doing very very well. While my scale keeps going down His/hers is going up! I am still in "normal" clothing and my "bump" is smaller then both previous pregnancies! I really feel great other then the morning sickness!
Even though our las ultrasound was a bit scary, my blood worked proved to be our saving grace. Soybean has a 1:3700 chance of having Down's! Fabulous news!!!! While God's plan is God's plan and I accept that, I am a lot less worried. And like I mentioned before, Wyatt had the same thing when I had my first trimester screen with him.
In other news, our vacation is fast approaching. I am a nervous flyer, but Jeremy (my better half) is my rock, usually he can just look at me and I am fine. He keeps reassuring me that it's no big deal but the mom in me is going nuts! Not only the fact that my babies are going to be a zillion feet above the ground (yes we will all be together but still), but all those germs!!!!! I stocked up on wipes and hand sanitizer. on the plus side (a REALLY big plus) we get to see family!
My big, boy is swimming now!!!! He does not touch the bottom but he does it! All on own!! No floaties or anything! He does get tired but that's to be expected for a four year old. Once he gets tired I make him put his swim suit with the floatie thing on. Meira loves the water too but wants to drink the water :)! She is such a doll!

Down today :(

  It started with this morning, I put on a shirt (maternity), and no I'm not showing, but I could not wear it because my boobs were too big. I know it should be good but, I feel anything but. I have lost wight since finding out I'm pregnant, but today I feel gross and huge.

  A good friend help me put things into perspective. I am not going to like what I seen on the mirror (that would be my perspective lol) but she told me to focus on the little baby inside me. See him/her for now, until I am ready to see myself.

  So that is what I will work on. I am also going to try and get on gear at the gym again. I am in the second trimester (I go by real months now pregnancy weeks) so I should start to get my energy back soon. My morning sickness is only an every other day occurrence now.
Well I'm off to bed now, hoping this funk I'm in is just that; a funk. Night.

DIY: Hubby's Shirt to Summer Tank

HUBBY'S SHIRT TO SUMMER TANK

I decided to do this because I saw this pinned on pinterest. Only problem it wasn't a tutorial, but a link to someone's ETSY store. The shirt wasn't even available for purchase anymore, so I felt like crafting my blues away. It worked.

Things you need:

• Men's button down shirt pre-washed and 1 sz bigger then you normally wear (unless you are pretty skinny). I used one that fit, and it turned out great, but I would like a little more room down by my booty. Yes, I have one LOL.
• Sewing machine. You only need the bare basics to sew this.
• Thick ribbon 
• Safety Pin 
• Lighter

I have no true measurement because I just eyeballed it really. I did however use a 1/4' seam and I tried my best to account for that. But the way I cut the shirt made it so I really did not have to account for seam allowance. If  I am confusing you just read on... ;)

I tried to document this as best I could but the lighting in the family room bites.

1. If you are using a long sleeve shirt, go ahead and cut them shorter. Then cut along the bottom towards the armpit but do not cut into the vertical seam of the sleeve. Once to the vertical seam, cut the sleeve off. The shirt I used had a double seam so I only cut near the very first one in shown in the 3rd square.

2) Pin above and below the first button in the middle of the shirt aligning the part that opens (FYI not the collar button, but the first button of the actual shirt).  I used the pattern of the shirt to use as a guide for where I would cut (about 2" from the top). If you are using a plain shirt use a pencil and a ruler to make your guide. Straight pin across the rest of your shirt so the fabric does not move while you are cutting. See in the image below how I used the pattern on the shirt to cut.

3) In the first picture you will see what I meant about the double seam. I cut next to the first. I then used the second seam as my guide to fold down the fabric for a new seam eliminating a need to figure out seam allowance!!!! Yippee! Just keep straight pinning and the middle of the armpit will bunch a bit but its supposed to. TIP: I worked from each end to the middle of the arm pit. It was easiest and it eliminated "the bunch" for happening any where else.

4) Repeat and Sew. (A picture of the armpit bunch)

5) Here is what I did for the next part, it may differ for you, but it worked out for me. I pinned above and below the button, only going through the front of the shirt this time. and then folded down the front of the shirt, so that the first button was at the top. Straight pinned the center and proceeded to either side. The back side was tricky. Mens shirts have a curve, and some times a seam in the back. My hubby's did, but even though I didn't take that seam into consideration before I cut it worked out perfectly to what needed to be folded down. Make sure you are folding INTO the shirt. It's common sewing sense but just thought I'd add  it. TIP: Even though I just folded down the back in a straight line, it wound up curving naturally, I assume this is because of the seam I used to fold on.

6) Sew. See I made a mistake on the front. Since it will all be bunched together on the ribbon, no one will ever know. Also see how the back curved naturally in the second picture?

7) Almost done. Cut your ribbon. I don't have a ruler so I used about 2.5 arms length. Use the lighter to seal the ends of the ribbon and but the safety pin on one of the ends. This will make threading the ribbon SO much easier. Thread through the back, then the front. I doesn't matter weather you start left or right unless you want the bow in a certain spot. Once you have it threaded through the front and back, put it on and THEN tie the bow. Once you have the bow tied, and the length of the "straps you want, go ahead and have someone help you bunch. the front is easy but the back is difficult to do while wearing. I found even if I took the shirt off, it didn't feel right until I had someone else bunch the back. TIP: when you get to the center of the front, undo the button, separate, then tread the ribbon trough.

Our Soybean!!!: ultrasound pictures included!

  Soybean was too cute. He/She jumped, wiggled and waved. If you are from my FB and are taking the time to read this then only you will be privy to this info. At the beginning of the scan the tech measured the fluid on the back of the baby's neck. She said there is more then normal, which means there is a risk of our baby being bourn with Down's syndrome.

  Yes this may be the case, but I wont know more until A) blood test comes back (but not exactly sure if the blood test was done for genetics like I originally thought) or B) My appointment in July. I am worried, as any mother would be, but I am comforted at the same time, because the chances our baby will be "normal" are still pretty good. Wyatt had the same thing and he turned out just fine.

Seeing our Soybean at 11:30!!!!

I can't wait!!! I woke up at six a.m. thinking it was time to get up. I am twelve weeks today so this is our first trimester screen. We are also getting the genetic blood testing done today. I don't have to but I did it with my other two. Wyatt because I was a " young mother" and it was suggested to me (?) and Meira Catherina, because I had it done with Wyatt. Even if something were to show up, I would never terminate pregnancy. This baby is a gift from God and as his/her mother it is my job to give him/her a chance at life weather it's for years weeks days or minutes.

Jeremy is excited too. He keeps telling Meira she gets to see pictures or the baby in Mama's belly. She is just like whatever. Wyatt can't wait to see the baby swimming! He came up with that when Meira was about 20 weeks gestation (before seeing an ultrasound), he asked,"How can the baby move in your belly"?

I told him there is water all around the baby to help Baby move an he said "Awe she's swimming"! He insisted I was having a girl from the moment I told him I was going to have a baby. He was right! Now he's saying Soybean is a girl :)


Will post pictures later!!!!!